1  Who Is Paula Susan?
  

I live my life as a gift of time; my relationships, my work, every moment has a sacredness to it. Click Here

2  Trauma and New Energy
     Psychology
  

After the stress of Santa's hectic schedule, even he needs someone to talk to. Click Here

3  Relationship Counseling
  

I love the fact that this actually works. It can be powerfully life-changing. Click Here

How different . . . might your relationship be if you were able to: Heal old wounds. Understand the dynamics between you and your partner. Be respectful of each other's way of interpreting the world. Realistically negotiate and meet each others needs and desires without giving up important parts of you. Play, laugh and have fun together because laughter makes a wonderful bond. Resolve anger and appreciate the value of your differences as an enhancement to your life together. Listen and really hear each other, using the finest communication process I've ever known. Make it safe to be authentic with each other and to bear the anxiety of another level of intimacy. Have an erotic, spiritually fulfilling sexual relationship.

3  Relationship       Counseling        love the fact that this actually works. It can be powerfully life-changing. And, I get to be guide and witness, which is deeply gratifying.     f the relationship is so toxic that it cannot be revived, I help people separate, heal and move on in a self-respecting way.     ertified as an Imago Relationship Therapist, I enthusiastically endorse many of HarvilIe Hendrix's concepts (Getting The Love You Want) and teach valuable skills (how to's) for people in couplehood. I study the many wonderful thinkers who attempt to decipher the complexity of our humanity and the challenge of relationships. David Schnarch, for example, contributes a serious evaluation on the impact and importance of self-validation in healthy relationships. He also suggests we settle for nothing less than striving for sexual ecstasy with our partners. John Gray gives attention to gender difference which helps us understand the male/female struggle... can teach you how to recreate your life together. This time,a conscious, mature, alive relationship that grows and lasts through time! Same Sex Couples . . . have additional challenges. Being comfortable in your own skin, honoring the Self you are and taking your rightful place, will help you through those struggles and hard decisions.                           [Next column]