Couples’ BIG MISTAKE
As a therapist since 1982, what would you think I would hear over and over, from one couple after another? Whether the issue is sex, verbal abuse, lack of intimacy and connection – it invariably goes back to a lack of affection and communication skills.
“I asked you to go to therapy with me years ago. You were not willing,”
“You told me you would find someone for us to see, and you never did.”
“What’s therapy going to do for us? We talk and nothing changes.”
Many affairs are conducted behind the scenes, because someone has not been heard.
Many divorces are launched because one partner’s needs are not being met.
People feel so isolated in their relationships, and there is no one who hears their cries. Those cries turn into anger and despair.
When a skilled clinician is available to hear you and help you to express yourself to the person not listening – well, think of the possible outcomes. Call me. 609-975-8845.