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Why Paula Susan has been so successful in healing trauma.

Here in South Jersey, I have spent these last 39 years, doing the deep work of healing trauma survivors.  Abuse comes in many forms.  There is mental, physical, sexual, emotional abuse and neglect.

Any one of these may result in seriously low self-esteem.  If your parents are not encouraging, inspiring, loving, your self-esteem will be very damaged.

When that happens, your choices will not be the best.  This may continue to add to your disappointment in yourself.  Happiness eludes you.

I made a commitment to learn everything I could on the subject of trauma.  I decided to specialize in this field as well as relationships.

It is absolutely true that your past experiences affect the relationships you forge. Most marriages in therapy, demonstrate that to me.

I know how to heal in the core and help you create a loving, fulfilling life.  I know because I lived it!

www.paulasusan.com

609-975-8845

Relationship and Trauma Specialist in Southern New Jersey,  Paula Susan, heals pain at its core and gives broken marriages a new breath of life.

For almost for years, it has been a privilege, my hearts pleasure, to meet and help people to live life with optimism and self-respect.

I like working with couples on the edge, between repair and divorce.  It is vital to assist in their making sense of why they got where they are with each other.

With a successful process called EMDR, along with the integration of all my learning through the years, I am able to see people truly moved beyond their negative emotions.

Learning the power of honest communication is unbeatable, with your partner or in the world.  I teach a Dialogue that re-connects relationships, through truly listening and hearing the other – combined with learning the value of empathy.

We tackle the differences now with understanding of where the other is “coming from” and how it impacts them.  Between the two, they are able to come to a solution that respects each of them.

Paula has been counseling couples and individuals for over 37 years.

Please call and speak with me regarding what hurts in your life.

CHOOSING THE BEST THERAPIST FOR

RELATIONSHIP ISSUES

Honestly, it blows my mind that people are so afraid to confront the things that bother them in their relationships.  Some keep their mouths shut because they are afraid to be met with a firestorm.  Some don’t know how to discuss their unhappiness.  Some were brought up to keep quiet –  Don’t argue –

Do what you are told.

So, what happens?  Resentments build over time, and there are consequences that will lead to disaster in your relationships:  Periodic blow-ups, not wanting to be home, not being able to participate fully in sexual intimacy, some lead to affairs or divorce.  There have even been cases which lead to murder.  When anger builds, anything can happen.

Good therapy, with a good therapist can change your life.  That may mean a few less dinners out and postponing Broadway shows.  But, it will be so worth it!  The results of the therapy will be that you will have what it takes to build a happy life.

I have 38 years of experience.  That is not just counseling people in my office. It is also all the readings and all the trainings that I have done and continue to do.  I am up-to-date on the myriad methods to alleviate suffering.   I teach an amazing method to express yourselves to one other.  I have the skills to deeply heal the wounds of your life which keep you from knowing lasting love and the emotional connection that is necessary for intimacy and a life worth living.

Read my website and give me a call. We can talk and see if we fit for working together.

Paula Susan, MSW, LCSW is a Relationship and Trauma Specialist in Southern New Jersey who has been counseling couples and individuals for over 33 years.

South Jersey’s Experienced Trauma and Relationships Therapist Shares the Process.

When couples come in for therapy, I, as a specialist in trauma and relationships, find I always have both hats on.

No matter their concerns, I also take into account their life experiences.  Their reactions to their partners, friends, the world are often provoking unconscious memories which impact their responses.

Feelings of each are discussed.  Empathy is encouraged.  Healing the issues and feelings in the present need to happen.  With the wealth of training from experts in the field, I remain convinced that EMDR does an efficient and excellent job of healing deep wounds.  I integrate that process with all I have learned.

Communication skills are absolutely necessary – even for those who feel they do talk to each other.  The skills I teach create understanding and empathy.

Negotiation skills help couples find a way to satisfy each other.

Call me and we can talk.  609-975-8845.

CHOOSING THE BEST THERAPIST FOR

RELATIONSHIP ISSUES

Honestly, it blows my mind that people are so afraid to confront the things that bother them in their relationships.  Some keep their mouths shut because they are afraid to be met with a firestorm.  Some don’t know how to discuss their unhappiness.  Some were brought up to keep quiet –  Don’t argue –

Do what you are told.

So, what happens?  Resentments build over time, and there are consequences that will lead to disaster in your relationships:  Periodic blow-ups, not wanting to be home, not being able to participate fully in sexual intimacy, some lead to affairs or divorce.  There have even been cases which lead to murder.  When anger builds, anything can happen.

Good therapy, with a good therapist can change your life.  That may mean a few less dinners out and postponing Broadway shows.  But, it will be so worth it!  The results of the therapy will be that you will have what it takes to build a happy life.

I have 38 years of experience.  That is not just counseling people in my office. It is also all the readings and all the trainings that I have done and continue to do.  I am up-to-date on the myriad methods to alleviate suffering.   I teach an amazing method to express yourselves to one other.  I have the skills to deeply heal the wounds of your life which keep you from knowing lasting love and the emotional connection that is necessary for intimacy and a life worth living.

Read my website and give me a call. We can talk and see if we fit for working together.

Paula Susan, MSW, LCSW is a Relationship and Trauma Specialist in Southern New Jersey who has been counseling couples and individuals for over 33 years.