I’m Paula Susan and am in my 36th year of helping clients resolve built up anger in their relationships.
One person in the couple may be an easy push over so to keep peace between them. The other person thinks everything is okay yet senses something is wrong. Just feels it.
One person has lost the sexual excitement they once felt, and has sought it elsewhere. When the other finds out, major issues arise between them including the betrayal and guilt they will experience. The trust must be assured, in order to recapture the love.
One person had a horrid childhood and took in negative messages from it. They tend to be very angry at the world. They don’t have a clue how this effects their partner.
One person has a history of lies, and does defensive cover-ups. When found out, they have put their life together, at major risk.
Many people, couples, individuals, think people will perceive them as a failure by going to therapy. And, many, many relationships have been saved by a good therapist who is capable of getting to the bottom of their stored anger and resentment. The therapist should have years of experience and training to do deep healing, and to teach the couple a way to hear and understand each other, using solid communication skills.
I am known in the South Jersey community and parts of Philadelphia, as the specialist in Trauma and Relationships. Read my website and understand why.