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Complex issues? Struggling with an unhappy relationship?

Complex issues?  Help is in your backyard!  Paula Susan specializes in Trauma and Relationships since 1982. If you are struggling with an unhappy relationship, learn how to talk with each other and solve differences.  If someone is carrying a lot

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Marriage/relationship and Trauma Specialist, Paula Susan, makes sense of it.

WHY MARRIAGES AND RELATIONSHIPS FAIL   When you “fell in love”, you saw many things that felt wonderful. You looked forward to a “wonderful” life. I have defined that initial state as a psychosis. It grips and draws you to

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Facing a Happy New Year in South Jersey? Many couples are not.

  That is why I have dedicated 36 years to being the specialist in Trauma and Relationships. Invariably, couples who come to me with issues between them, have each carried some small or big trauma from the past. Not everyone

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Relieving Unhappiness in South Jersey

Is your relationship what you have signed up for? Relationship problems, even the most complex, can be healed with a seasoned specialist in Relationship/Marital and Trauma issues. This is who I am, Paula Susan, serving, healing, for 36 years, in

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Lack of communication is at the core of issues in any relationship – especially in committed relationships.

I am Paula Susan.  Since 1982, I have specialized in trauma and Relationships/Marital issues.  Many numbers of people in South Jersey are in healthy relationships because they learned one of the finest communication skills that I teach.  Their relationship is

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South Jersey Relationships, and the anger and resentments that destroy them.

I’m Paula Susan and am in my 36th year of helping clients resolve built up anger in their relationships. One person in the couple may be an easy push over so to keep peace between them. The other person thinks

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Trauma and Relationship Specialist in South Jersey

I am Paula Susan, in private practice here in South Jersey, for 36 years. I chose to specialize in Trauma and Relationship which are often complicated situations.  In some ways, they prevent love from growing. It doesn’t have to be

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Paula Susan is Helping People from every part of South Jersey.

  As the specialist in South Jersey counseling people for trauma issues (big and small) and relationship challenges (any kind), I see more and more people are desiring something stable and good in their personal lives. They are not willing

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South Jersey Relationship/Couples and Trauma Specialist talks about facing another unhappy year with your partner.

Hi, and Happy New Year!  I have been specializing in the field of marriage and trauma therapy since 1982. And, every year it is the same, in my practice. The phones are ringing off the hook after the holidays, with

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South Jersey’s Specialist in Relationships/Marriage and Trauma Speaks About the Painful Revelations Around Holidays and the Coming new Year.

Web site blog   South Jersey’s Specialist in Relationships/Marriage and Trauma speaks about the painful revelations around holidays and the coming New Year. Since 1982, I have been listening to couples who have been in a relationship or marriage a

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Masters in Social Work and Psychology
- Relationship & Trauma
- Specialist Since 1982
- Expert in EMDR

Short-Term
Dynamic Therapy

Training & Certifications in Energy
Psychology, Cognitive/Behavioral,
EMDR, HAT, EFT, Hypnotherapy,
Neurolinguistics and more.

IMAGO
Certified Relationship Specialist

Heal Relationships
Affairs:
To separate or grow beyond

Gay and Lesbian Challenges:
How to transcend them

Sexual Issues:
Release from dogma to freedom,
from passive to responsive

Communication:
Hearing and being heard -
real connection

Resolve Trauma
Certified by American Academy of Experts in Traumatic Stress: Big and Small Trauma,
Incest, Tragedy, Sexual Violation,
Grieving, Chronic Illness

Clinical Depression,
Anxiety

Consultation to
professionals

Referral Network

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Paula was a guest on the weekly WGLS-fm Rowan Radio Show
Your Health Matters with Dr. Craig Wax
Topics Discussed:

  • How Relationships Can Be Compromised Due to Stress
  • The Economy's Impact on Relationships
  • And More...

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to the podcast!!!

Empowering Ourselves Interview