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Paula Susan, Relationship and Trauma Specialist Since 1982, Discusses The Loss of a Love That Once Radiated Your Life.

My office, here in South Jersey has been filled with couples aching for what once was. Sometimes the problem is not knowing how to enliven a weary relationship. Same routines often become boring. I find communication and intimacy a primary

Posted in Anger, Betrayal, Choosing a partner, Chronic Illness, Couples Counseling, Creating Intimacy in Relationships, EMDR, Falling in love, Family Counseling, Keeping Relationships Healthy and Fun, Marriage Counseling, NJ Counseling Services, PTSD Therapists, Relationship with Mothers and Fathers, Relationships on Holidays, Sex, Sexual attraction, South Jersey Counseling, South Jersey Therapists

Paula Susan Has Been Successful in Healing Trauma

Why Paula Susan has been so successful in healing trauma.   Here in South Jersey, I have spent these last 39 years, doing the deep work of healing trauma survivors.  Abuse comes in many forms.  There is mental, physical, sexual,

Posted in Anger, Choosing a partner, Chronic Illness, Couples Counseling, Creating Intimacy in Relationships, EMDR, Falling in love, Family Counseling, Keeping Relationships Healthy and Fun, Marriage Counseling, NJ Counseling Services, PTSD Therapists, Relationship with Mothers and Fathers, Relationships on Holidays, Sex, Sexual attraction, South Jersey Counseling, South Jersey Therapists

Relationship and Trauma Specialist heals pain at its core and gives broken marriages a new breath of life.

Relationship and Trauma Specialist in Southern New Jersey,  Paula Susan, heals pain at its core and gives broken marriages a new breath of life.   For almost for years, it has been a privilege, my hearts pleasure, to meet and

Posted in Anger, Choosing a partner, Chronic Illness, Couples Counseling, Creating Intimacy in Relationships, EMDR, Falling in love, Family Counseling, Keeping Relationships Healthy and Fun, Marriage Counseling, NJ Counseling Services, PTSD Therapists, Relationship with Mothers and Fathers, Relationships on Holidays, Sex, Sexual attraction, South Jersey Counseling, South Jersey Therapists

Choosing the Best Therapist for Relationship Issues

CHOOSING THE BEST THERAPIST FOR RELATIONSHIP ISSUES   Honestly, it blows my mind that people are so afraid to confront the things that bother them in their relationships.  Some keep their mouths shut because they are afraid to be met

Posted in Anger, Choosing a partner, Chronic Illness, Couples Counseling, Creating Intimacy in Relationships, EMDR, Falling in love, Family Counseling, Keeping Relationships Healthy and Fun, Marriage Counseling, NJ Counseling Services, PTSD Therapists, Relationship with Mothers and Fathers, Relationships on Holidays, Sex, Sexual attraction, South Jersey Counseling, South Jersey Therapists

South Jersey’s Experienced Trauma and Relationship Therapist shares the Process

South Jersey’s Experienced Trauma and Relationships Therapist Shares the Process.   When couples come in for therapy, I, as a specialist in trauma and relationships, find I always have both hats on.   No matter their concerns, I also take

Posted in Anger, Choosing a partner, Chronic Illness, Couples Counseling, Creating Intimacy in Relationships, EMDR, Falling in love, Family Counseling, Keeping Relationships Healthy and Fun, Marriage Counseling, NJ Counseling Services, PTSD Therapists, Relationship with Mothers and Fathers, Relationships on Holidays, Sex, Sexual attraction, South Jersey Counseling, South Jersey Therapists

Choosing the Best Therapist for Relationship Issues

CHOOSING THE BEST THERAPIST FOR RELATIONSHIP ISSUES   Honestly, it blows my mind that people are so afraid to confront the things that bother them in their relationships.  Some keep their mouths shut because they are afraid to be met

Posted in Anger, Choosing a partner, Chronic Illness, Couples Counseling, Creating Intimacy in Relationships, EMDR, Falling in love, Family Counseling, Keeping Relationships Healthy and Fun, Marriage Counseling, NJ Counseling Services, PTSD Therapists, Relationship with Mothers and Fathers, Relationships on Holidays, Sex, Sexual attraction, South Jersey Counseling, South Jersey Therapists

South Jersey’s Experienced Trauma and Relationships Therapist Shares the Process.

When couples come in for therapy, I, as a specialist in trauma and relationships, find I always have both hats on. No matter their concerns, I also take into account their life experiences.  Their reactions to their partners, friends, the

Posted in Anger, Choosing a partner, Chronic Illness, Couples Counseling, Creating Intimacy in Relationships, EMDR, Falling in love, Family Counseling, Keeping Relationships Healthy and Fun, Marriage Counseling, NJ Counseling Services, PTSD Therapists, Relationship with Mothers and Fathers, Relationships on Holidays, Sex, Sexual attraction, South Jersey Counseling, South Jersey Therapists

Hat’s Off To The Graduates

HATS OFF TO THE GRADUATES By Paula Susan Spring is busting out all over, and students everywhere are excited but scared, at the same time, to move on to the next level in their education. Some arrived at this point

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South Jersey’s Specialist in Complex Relationships/Marriage and Trauma

SOUTH JERSEY’S SPECIALIST IN COMPLEX RELATIONSHIPS/MARRIAGE AND TRAUMA   Since 1982, I have enjoyed the privilege of helping human beings heal and grow. Most often, the issues that arise in a once-loving relationship have a connection, in some way, to

Posted in Anger, Choosing a partner, Chronic Illness, Couples Counseling, Creating Intimacy in Relationships, Falling in love, Family Counseling, Keeping Relationships Healthy and Fun, Marriage Counseling, NJ Counseling Services, PTSD Therapists, Relationship with Mothers and Fathers, Relationships on Holidays, Sex, Sexual attraction, South Jersey Counseling, South Jersey Therapists

Couples’ Big Mistake

Couples’ BIG MISTAKE As a therapist since 1982, what would you think I would hear over and over, from one couple after another?  Whether the issue is sex, verbal abuse, lack of intimacy and connection – it invariably goes back

Posted in Anger, Choosing a partner, Chronic Illness, Couples Counseling, Creating Intimacy in Relationships, Falling in love, Family Counseling, Keeping Relationships Healthy and Fun, Marriage Counseling, NJ Counseling Services, PTSD Therapists, Relationship with Mothers and Fathers, Relationships on Holidays, Sex, Sexual attraction, South Jersey Counseling, South Jersey Therapists

Masters in Social Work and Psychology
- Relationship & Trauma
- Specialist Since 1982
- Expert in EMDR

Short-Term
Dynamic Therapy

Training & Certifications in Energy
Psychology, Cognitive/Behavioral,
EMDR, HAT, EFT, Hypnotherapy,
Neurolinguistics and more.

IMAGO
Certified Relationship Specialist

Heal Relationships
Affairs:
To separate or grow beyond

Gay and Lesbian Challenges:
How to transcend them

Sexual Issues:
Release from dogma to freedom,
from passive to responsive

Communication:
Hearing and being heard -
real connection

Resolve Trauma
Certified by American Academy of Experts in Traumatic Stress: Big and Small Trauma,
Incest, Tragedy, Sexual Violation,
Grieving, Chronic Illness

Clinical Depression,
Anxiety

Consultation to
professionals

Referral Network

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Paula was a guest on the weekly WGLS-fm Rowan Radio Show
Your Health Matters with Dr. Craig Wax
Topics Discussed:

  • How Relationships Can Be Compromised Due to Stress
  • The Economy's Impact on Relationships
  • And More...

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to the podcast!!!

Empowering Ourselves Interview