ABOUT LIFE COUNSELING, LLC - Repairing Lives, Restoring Hope with Wisdom, Skill and Heart

Paula Susan, respected therapist in South Jersey asks . . . .DO YOU LIVE IN A SECURE, LOVING RELATIONSHIP?

      It’s a good question to ask, especially in the midst of all the challenges this world is experiencing, and the chaos and present dangers we hear about daily. 

      If your relationship doesn’t feel secure and loving, then consider using my skills, wisdom and knowledge to create a relationship that is healthy, loving, safe and supportive. 

      That is something you do have power over.  Just about every couple I meet comes in with built up resentments.

      These resentments multiply and the kindness a couple once had for each other is lost. One can feel the distance between them.  When you have accumulated resentments over the years, intimacy suffers.

      What happened to the joy they once felt?

      Many times the couple is ready for divorce. There is a lot to consider. I can help.

      With skills I have learned and integrated into my work, deep healing (that you would have carried with you wherever you are) will result. I teach some of those skills to my clients so their success with me is maintained.

      EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing) goes to the root of the issue. The Dialogue brings couples together in a kind, respectful way. It is a process that will take you into each other’s experience. From that process, empathy will emerge and a deeper understanding of the partners will bring them closer.

      I have dedicated my life to this healing. Call me at 609-975-8845 so we can speak personally with each other.

      You have the power to re-create your relationship and live the life you have wanted.

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Masters in Social Work and Psychology
- Relationship & Trauma
- Specialist Since 1982
- Expert in EMDR

Dynamic Therapy

Training & Certifications in Energy
Psychology, Cognitive/Behavioral,
EMDR, HAT, EFT, Hypnotherapy,
Neurolinguistics and more.

Certified Relationship Specialist

Heal Relationships
To separate or grow beyond

Gay and Lesbian Challenges:
How to transcend them

Sexual Issues:
Release from dogma to freedom,
from passive to responsive

Hearing and being heard -
real connection

Resolve Trauma
Certified by American Academy of Experts in Traumatic Stress: Big and Small Trauma,
Incest, Tragedy, Sexual Violation,
Grieving, Chronic Illness

Clinical Depression,

Consultation to

Referral Network


Guest Blogger at

Paula was a guest on the weekly WGLS-fm Rowan Radio Show
Your Health Matters with Dr. Craig Wax
Topics Discussed:

  • How Relationships Can Be Compromised Due to Stress
  • The Economy's Impact on Relationships
  • And More...

Click below to listen
to the podcast!!!

Empowering Ourselves Interview

A Message From Paula Susan

During this terrible crisis and isolation, Paula Susan, Trauma and Relationship Specialist since 1982, is here to help you.  We can speak through telephone or Zoom and I will do counseling  that can transform your life.  Traumas - big and little - change the way we feel about ourselves, each other and the world.

I continue to study with the masters in my field.  And, I have integrated the most valuable ways of healing different issues, into the EMDR which I have creatively made my own.

You can reach me at 609-975-8845  and, please check out my website at paulasusan.com (About Life Counseling)