ABOUT LIFE COUNSELING, LLC - Repairing Lives, Restoring Hope with Wisdom, Skill and Heart

Relationship and Trauma Specialist heals pain at its core and gives broken marriages a new breath of life.

Relationship and Trauma Specialist in Southern New Jersey,  Paula Susan, heals pain at its core and gives broken marriages a new breath of life.


For almost for years, it has been a privilege, my hearts pleasure, to meet and help people to live life with optimism and self-respect.


I like working with couples on the edge, between repair and divorce.  It is vital to assist in their making sense of why they got where they are with each other.


With a successful process called EMDR, along with the integration of all my learning through the years, I am able to see people truly moved beyond their negative emotions.


Learning the power of honest communication is unbeatable, with your partner or in the world.  I teach a Dialogue that re-connects relationships, through truly listening and hearing the other – combined with learning the value of empathy.


We tackle the differences now with understanding of where the other is “coming from” and how it impacts them.  Between the two, they are able to come to a solution that respects each of them.

Paula has been counseling couples and individuals for over 37 years.


Please call and speak with me regarding what hurts in your life.

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Masters in Social Work and Psychology
- Relationship & Trauma
- Specialist Since 1982
- Expert in EMDR

Dynamic Therapy

Training & Certifications in Energy
Psychology, Cognitive/Behavioral,
EMDR, HAT, EFT, Hypnotherapy,
Neurolinguistics and more.

Certified Relationship Specialist

Heal Relationships
To separate or grow beyond

Gay and Lesbian Challenges:
How to transcend them

Sexual Issues:
Release from dogma to freedom,
from passive to responsive

Hearing and being heard -
real connection

Resolve Trauma
Certified by American Academy of Experts in Traumatic Stress: Big and Small Trauma,
Incest, Tragedy, Sexual Violation,
Grieving, Chronic Illness

Clinical Depression,

Consultation to

Referral Network


Guest Blogger at

Paula was a guest on the weekly WGLS-fm Rowan Radio Show
Your Health Matters with Dr. Craig Wax
Topics Discussed:

  • How Relationships Can Be Compromised Due to Stress
  • The Economy's Impact on Relationships
  • And More...

Click below to listen
to the podcast!!!

Empowering Ourselves Interview

A Message From Paula Susan

During this terrible crisis and isolation, Paula Susan, Trauma and Relationship Specialist since 1982, is here to help you.  We can speak through telephone or Zoom and I will do counseling  that can transform your life.  Traumas - big and little - change the way we feel about ourselves, each other and the world.

I continue to study with the masters in my field.  And, I have integrated the most valuable ways of healing different issues, into the EMDR which I have creatively made my own.

You can reach me at 609-975-8845  and, please check out my website at paulasusan.com (About Life Counseling)