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Facing a Happy New Year in South Jersey? Many couples are not.


That is why I have dedicated 36 years to being the specialist in Trauma and Relationships. Invariably, couples who come to me with issues between them, have each carried some small or big trauma from the past. Not everyone knows how to love or receive it.


Military, medical trauma, disasters, murders – they are all big traumas. What about having been physically or emotionally beaten? What about some of us were not loved and/or were neglected? Some of us have survived sexual assault and abuse.


While some people have made adjustments to live with their past, it does not escape their unconscious or what resides in their bodies. Bessell van Der Kolk, the recognized trauma expert throughout the world, proves this in his book, The Body Keeps the Score. It is often the unresolved traumas that destroy intimacy and relationships.

So, if your partner has problems sexually, or is defensive, or the sparkle is no longer there, come to me. My many skills such as EMDR, EFT and years of successfully healing relationships, are available to you.


Check out my website www.paulasusan.com and call 609-975-8845.

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Masters in Social Work and Psychology
- Relationship & Trauma
- Specialist Since 1982
- Expert in EMDR

Dynamic Therapy

Training & Certifications in Energy
Psychology, Cognitive/Behavioral,
EMDR, HAT, EFT, Hypnotherapy,
Neurolinguistics and more.

Certified Relationship Specialist

Heal Relationships
To separate or grow beyond

Gay and Lesbian Challenges:
How to transcend them

Sexual Issues:
Release from dogma to freedom,
from passive to responsive

Hearing and being heard -
real connection

Resolve Trauma
Certified by American Academy of Experts in Traumatic Stress: Big and Small Trauma,
Incest, Tragedy, Sexual Violation,
Grieving, Chronic Illness

Clinical Depression,

Consultation to

Referral Network


Guest Blogger at

Paula was a guest on the weekly WGLS-fm Rowan Radio Show
Your Health Matters with Dr. Craig Wax
Topics Discussed:

  • How Relationships Can Be Compromised Due to Stress
  • The Economy's Impact on Relationships
  • And More...

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to the podcast!!!

Empowering Ourselves Interview