That is why I have dedicated 36 years to being the specialist in Trauma and Relationships. Invariably, couples who come to me with issues between them, have each carried some small or big trauma from the past. Not everyone knows how to love or receive it.
Military, medical trauma, disasters, murders – they are all big traumas. What about having been physically or emotionally beaten? What about some of us were not loved and/or were neglected? Some of us have survived sexual assault and abuse.
While some people have made adjustments to live with their past, it does not escape their unconscious or what resides in their bodies. Bessell van Der Kolk, the recognized trauma expert throughout the world, proves this in his book, The Body Keeps the Score. It is often the unresolved traumas that destroy intimacy and relationships.
So, if your partner has problems sexually, or is defensive, or the sparkle is no longer there, come to me. My many skills such as EMDR, EFT and years of successfully healing relationships, are available to you.
Check out my website www.paulasusan.com and call 609-975-8845.